Now this does not come easily for me. I have a tendency to plan, scheme, worry and envision certain outcomes to things. I feel “comfortable” carrying around these feelings because it makes it seem like I’m in control of my life. I don’t spend too much time ruing the past, so that’s not the issue; I just have not spent a whole lot of time just “being” in the present and letting life reveal its secrets gradually.
It is kind of a Taoist approach to life: surrendering, letting go of resistance, and trusting Divinity. This puts one in tune with the flow of life by being in the here and now – the only place and time where life is truly lived. I am a work in progress, but so far the results have been rather remarkable, if only noticed by me.
I seem to be much calmer, patient, and feel more contented. I am finding that by not doing, things get done. Wonderful things that are meant to be in my life are really happening now because I am not putting up a big wall of resistance and fear. It is very peaceful feeling knowing that whatever happens was meant to be. I love this Chinese proverb: “If there is nothing you can do about it, why worry? If there is something you can do about it, why worry?”
This will be an ongoing process for me, I’m sure. A girl doesn’t give up her bag of frets and scheming all that easily! But it is calming, exciting, and hopeful all in one…and who can beat that?
“By letting go it all gets done.” ~Lao Tze